thoughts~

so i was going through jac's blog reading about the ridiculous ex. somehow it feels relatable to my situation. the 'ex' factor. haha!! some boys can be so damn immature. too immature to not even understand the words move on. it's obvious we girls do not want to have anything to do with them anymore. we do not want to go back there. so move on, because we have already done that long ago. even if you can't move on, find some other ways to deal with it and stop bothering us!! we do not appreciate you crawling back to us, begging us, saying things that you think can win us back. Face it fool, we are not interested, save it.

so the next thing i want to say is, i notice young people nowadays, especially teenagers, they are so excited to talk about sex. they are not shy to express themselves in this area. just go through your friendster friend's list. look, how many of them indirectly mentioned about having sex, how many of them is almost telling the whole world that they have lost their v-card. on top of this, i have heard of so many shirt gun marriages cases, like as if it's the most common, like a trend to get their girlfriends pregnant out of wedlock.

seriously man, im not a speaking of taboos or being against sex before marriage. anyone can do it, it's not wrong as long as you know what you are putting yourself in for. but please learn that the ugly side of sex could change your whole world and destiny. one wrong move, your whole life will be put on hold. im also not saying that these kids do not know what they are doing. but im sure many of them do not think about the consequences or even learn more before indulging in it. seriously man, there nothing cool about STDs or pregnancy.

i mean these are all just my opinion. but where have the days when sex is such a discrete topic? even if you are doing it, does it pay that you tell the whole world that you've done it? what will people around you think? perhaps the kids nowadaysjust grow up too fast. all the myths about television brings harm to it's viewers, suddenly it doesn't sound so wrong to me anymore. look what have grey's anatomy, the oc and one tree hill has done to our thinking and views?

let me say this again, im not against pre-marital sex. i even dare to say my thinking is far wider than this post too. but seriously man, even though it seems like it's an epidemic for asian children to lose their v-cards just while they are barely legal, i seriously hope they know what they are putting themselves into. there are big prices to pay for mistakes that sometimes we cannot erase or undo. i just hope that they will think a lot before they decide on anything. do not feel pressured or just want to fit in. if that's the main reason to this epidemic, these kids will bound to regret.